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		<title>Injustice</title>
		<link>http://www.befriendedstranger.com/bahai-faith/2010/08/09/injustice/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 12:30:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Baha'i Faith]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some things never change&#8230; Back in 1983, ABC Broadcasting had a 20/20 TV program on the persecution of the Baha&#8217;is of Iran. Now news sources as diverse as CNN and the Muslim Network for Baha&#8217;i Rights report that the seven leaders of the Baha&#8217;i Faith in Iran have been sentenced to 20 years in prison [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some things never change&#8230; Back in 1983, ABC Broadcasting had a <a title="20/20 Program on the Persecution of the Baha'is of Iran" href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2128317632629440784&amp;hl=en#">20/20 TV program on the persecution of the Baha&#8217;is of Iran</a>. Now news sources as diverse as <a title="CNN Reports" href="http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2010/08/08/7-bahais-sentenced-to-20-years-in-iran-group-says/">CNN</a> and <a title="Baha'i leaders sentenced according to the Muslim Network of Baha'i Rights" href="http://www.bahairights.org/2010/08/08/iran-sentences-bahai-leaders-to-20-years-in-prison/">the Muslim Network for Baha&#8217;i Rights</a> report that the <a title="Imprisoned Baha'i Leaders" href="http://iran.bahai.us/imprisoned-bahai-leaders-latest-news/">seven leaders</a> of <a title="Baha'i Faith in Iran" href="http://iran.bahai.us/">the Baha&#8217;i Faith in Iran</a> have been sentenced to <strong>20 years in prison</strong> each! Talk about <strong>injustice</strong>&#8230; This cannot continue forever.</p>
<blockquote><p>O OPPRESSORS ON EARTH!<br />
Withdraw your hands from tyranny, for I have pledged Myself not to forgive any man&#8217;s injustice. This is My covenant which I have irrevocably decreed in the preserved tablet and sealed with My seal.<br />
(Baha&#8217;u'llah, The Persian Hidden Words, #64)</p></blockquote>
<p>Last night I read the powerful <a title="Tablet of Ahmad" href="http://www.bahaiprayers.org/ahmad.htm">Tablet of Ahmad</a> with my heart&#8217;s thoughts centered on those <a title="Seven imprisoned Baha'i Leaders in Iran" href="http://iran.bahai.us/biographies-of-the-imprisoned-bahai-leaders-in-iran/">innocent souls</a> so unjustly imprisoned. That same evening, a friend of mine dedicated her Yoga practice to the cause of their liberation. What would you do? Let us all pray:</p>
<blockquote><p>Lauded be Thy name, O Thou Who beholdest all things and art hidden from all things! From every land Thou hearest the lamentations of them that love Thee, and from every direction Thou hearkenest unto the cries of such as have recognized Thy sovereignty. Were their oppressors to be asked: &#8220;Wherefore have ye oppressed them and held them in bondage in Baghdad and elsewhere? What injustice have they committed? Whom have they betrayed? Whose blood have they spilled, and whose property have they plundered?&#8221; they would know not what to answer.</p>
<p>Thou knowest full well, O my God, that their only crime is to have loved Thee. For this reason have their oppressors laid hold on them, and scattered them abroad. Aware as I am, O my God, that Thou wilt send down upon Thy servants only what is good for them, I nevertheless beseech Thee, by Thy name which overshadoweth all things, to raise up, for their assistance and as a sign of Thy grace and as an evidence of Thy power, those who will keep them safe from all their adversaries.</p>
<p>Potent art Thou to do Thy pleasure. Thou art, verily, the Supreme Ruler, the Almighty, the Help in Peril, the Self-Subsisting<br />
(Baha&#8217;u'llah, Prayers and Meditations by Baha&#8217;u'llah, p. 23)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Remembering Hiroshima</title>
		<link>http://www.befriendedstranger.com/music/2010/08/06/remembering-hiroshima/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 01:47:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I was growing up during the Cold War I was living in fear of the impending nuclear war. August 6th was always somberly commemorated with the sordid story of the bombing of Hiroshima (and two days later in Nagazaki). I wanted to find out the lyrics for a song which I wrong while in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was growing up during the Cold War I was living in fear of the impending nuclear war. August 6th was always somberly commemorated with the sordid story of the bombing of Hiroshima (and two days later in Nagazaki). I wanted to find out the lyrics for a song which I wrong while in college, called &#8220;Do Not Kill The Rainbow&#8221; and inspired my the story of the children of Hiroshima but I could not find it. So here I am posting the lyrics of two songs that I found very inspiring back in the day (and today still):</p>
<p><a title="Hiroshima by Gary Moore" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5X_7QFlbsW0">&#8220;Hiroshima&#8221; by Gary Moore</a>:</p>
<p>They still remember the day when Little Boy dropped from his womb.<br />
They still remember how their homes became their children&#8217;s tombs.<br />
Their suffer mourn each soul who died that August morning<br />
Why don&#8217;t we listen, why don&#8217;t we heed the warning?</p>
<p>Hiroshima, the place where innocence was burned.<br />
Hiroshima, the memory makes my stomach turn.<br />
Hiroshima, the world should truly feel the shame.<br />
Hiroshima, the place where facing death became the way of life.</p>
<p>So many children have been born who cannot read or write.<br />
They cannot speak, they cannot hear and some have lost their sight.<br />
Adults with infant minds don&#8217;t know the reason why,<br />
for they were in their mothers&#8217; wombs when death fell from the sky.</p>
<p>Hiroshima, the place where innocence was burned.<br />
Hiroshima, the memory makes my stomach turn.<br />
Hiroshima, the world should truly feel the shame.<br />
Hiroshima, the place where facing death became the way of life.</p>
<p>The rest of us should learn a lesson from their sorrow,<br />
so we can stop it all happening tomorrow.</p>
<p>Hiroshima, the place where innocence was burned.<br />
Hiroshima, the memory makes my stomach turn.<br />
Hiroshima, the world should truly feel the shame.<br />
Hiroshima, the rest of us must take the blame.</p>
<p>Hiroshima, the place where innocence was burned.<br />
Hiroshima, the memory makes my stomach turn.<br />
Hiroshima, men came to shadows where they stood.<br />
Hiroshima, this kind of evil brings no good.</p>
<p>No, no.<br />
No, no, no, no, no.<br />
No, no, woah.</p>
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<p><a title="Hiroshima Mon Amour by Alcatrazz" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRM1avXNQWw">&#8220;Hiroshima Mon Amour&#8221; by Alcatrazz</a>:</p>
<p>It was newborn and ten feet tall,<br />
But they called it little boy,<br />
And C7, H5, O6, N3 they called him<br />
T-N-T.</p>
<p>The fireball would dim the sun,<br />
Promising death in its cruelest form.</p>
<p>Hiroshima Mon Amour<br />
As we beg to be forgiven do you spit,<br />
In our face and curse us all.</p>
<p>The fireball that shamed the sun,<br />
Burning the shadows on the ground,<br />
As the rain falls to dry the land,<br />
Leaving desert for the thirsty man.</p>
<p>They all said it would end the war,<br />
And we thanked Christ for the bomb,<br />
And the priests and witches all agreed,<br />
They should die to keep them free.</p>
<p>The fireball that shamed the sun,<br />
Burning the shadows on the ground,<br />
As the rain falls to dry the land,<br />
Leaving the desert for the thirsty man.</p>
<p>HIROSHIMA!!!</p>
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<blockquote><p>During the last six thousand years nations have hated one another, it is now time to stop. War must cease. Let us be united and love one another and await the result. We know the effects of war are bad. So let us try, as an experiment, peace, and if the results of peace are bad, then we can choose if it would be better to go back to the old state of war! Let us in any case make the experiment. If we see that unity brings Light we shall continue it.<br />
(Abdu&#8217;l-Baha, Abdu&#8217;l-Baha in London, p. 61)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Voices of Democracy</title>
		<link>http://www.befriendedstranger.com/current-affairs/2010/06/12/voices-of-democracy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 19:32:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Matthew Levine has collaborated with Ron Ovadia in producing a song and video dedicated to the fight of Iranian people for democracy &#8220;Voices of Democracy&#8221;: Earlier today I witness a small but passionate procession of peaceful demonstrators down Pennsylvania Avenue with Iranian flags. I am reading these days Roxana Saberi&#8217;s book &#8220;Between Two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friend <a title="Matthew Levine" href="http://matthewlevinemusic.com/">Matthew Levine</a> has collaborated with Ron Ovadia in producing a song and video dedicated to the <a title="Human right abuses in Iran" href="http://news.bahai.org/story/773">fight of Iranian people for democracy</a> <a title="Voices of Democracy" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUVSF-1cefk">&#8220;Voices of Democracy&#8221;</a>:</p>
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<p>Earlier today I witness a small but passionate procession of peaceful demonstrators down Pennsylvania Avenue with Iranian flags.</p>
<p>I am reading these days Roxana Saberi&#8217;s book &#8220;<a title="Between Two Worlds" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061965286?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=strannikcreation&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0061965286&quot;">Between Two Worlds</a>&#8220;, which presents a fascinating view of the torturous Evin prison, where the 7 Baha&#8217;i leaders have been imprisoned since March 2008.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s <a title="Global call for release of the innocent Baha'is leaders of Iran" href="http://news.bahai.org/story/776">pray for freedom and the release of these brave, innocent souls</a>!</p>
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		<title>International Day of Children</title>
		<link>http://www.befriendedstranger.com/bahai-faith/2010/06/01/international-day-of-children/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 22:11:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I miss the excitement of the International Day of Children as it was widely celebrated back in Bulgaria.  Here the majority of people are not even aware of it. Symbolically, even the email card my brother sent me, congratulating my little ones with the 1st of June holiday, was caught in my spam inbox. The [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I miss the excitement of the International Day of Children as it was widely celebrated back in Bulgaria.  Here the majority of people are not even aware of it. Symbolically, even the email card my brother sent me, congratulating my little ones with the 1st of June holiday, was caught in my spam inbox. The irony is that in this country children are put on a special pedestal yet so often they do not know true childhood, oppressed as they are by their parents and society by the demand of the consumerist society. Paradoxically, of course, we are all children, adults included. We just often miss the right perspective. Here is a reminder:</p>
<blockquote><p>O true companions! All humankind are as children in a school, and the Dawning-Points of Light, the Sources of divine revelation, are the teachers, wondrous and without peer. In the school of realities they educate these sons and daughters, according to teachings from God, and foster them in the bosom of grace, so that they may develop along every line, show forth the excellent gifts and blessings of the Lord, and combine human perfections; that they may advance in all aspects of human endeavour, whether outward or inward, hidden or visible, material or spiritual, until they make of this mortal world a widespread mirror, to reflect that other world which dieth not.</p>
<p>(Abdu&#8217;l-Baha, Selections from the Writings of Abdu&#8217;l-Baha, p. 127)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Farewell Joe, Hello Fast</title>
		<link>http://www.befriendedstranger.com/bahai-faith/2010/03/01/farewell-joe-hello-fast/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 03:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago, at the Web Analytics Wednesday local gathering I saw an old friend whom I had met through the activities of the Web Managers Roundtable several years ago, Joe Pagano. As Joe and I spoke about interests beyond our profession, he enthusiastically invited me for a tour around the Library of Congress [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago, at the <a title="Web Analytics Wednesday" href="http://www.webanalyticsdemystified.com/wednesday/index.asp">Web Analytics Wednesday</a> local gathering I saw an old friend whom I had met through the activities of the Web Managers Roundtable several years ago, <a title="Joe Pagano's obituary" href="http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/washingtonpost/obituary.aspx?n=joseph-n-pagano&amp;pid=139892841">Joe Pagano</a>. As Joe and I spoke about interests beyond our profession, he enthusiastically invited me for a tour around the Library of Congress where he worked. We agreed to meet for lunch with another fine friend of mine &#8212; and a Library of Congress fellow &#8212; Bill Collins. I thought that such a lunch would give me an opportunity to talk to Joe &#8212; a truly special human being &#8212; about the <a title="Baha'i Faith" href="http://www.bahai.org">Baha&#8217;i Faith</a>. We had originally planned to meet for lunch on February 10th but had to shift it to February 9th due to other activities. The big DC snow of February 2010 then had us postpone again, and then came my trip to Bulgaria. Now that I am back, I was about to send a message to Joe and Bill to start planning again for our lunch.</p>
<p>This morning however, I got Jim Sterne&#8217;s newsletter, <a title="Sterne Measures" href="http://www.emetrics.org/sterne_measures.php">Sterne Measures</a>, and read in horror the following:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>So Long Joe, You Will Be Missed</strong></p>
<div id=":nk">Last month, we lost Joe Pagano,  a vibrant member of our community. Joe was the digital media project  coordinator<br />
in the Office of Strategic Initiatives at the Library of Congress where he led the Library&#8217;s Web site analytics<br />
program. He worked in web metrics for the last eight years, was co-chair of the Web Manager&#8217;s Advisory Council Web<br />
Metrics Task Group and was very active in the Web Analytics Association. Rest well, Joe.</div>
</blockquote>
<div>I read several <a title="Prayer for the departed" href="http://bahaiprayers.org/depart2.htm">prayers for the departed</a> today. I was quite shaken by Joe&#8217;s untimely passing because it reminded me of how short human life is:</div>
<blockquote>
<div>31. O SON OF BEING!<br />
Bring thyself to account each day ere thou art summoned to a reckoning; for death, unheralded, shall come upon thee and thou shalt be called to give account for thy deeds.</p>
<p>(Baha&#8217;u'llah, The Arabic Hidden Words)</p>
</div>
</blockquote>
<div>This has been a stirring reminder of how unique every fleeting moment is, and of the missed opportunities &#8212; to teach and to live a good life and appreciate it. What if I had talked to Joe about the Faith without waiting for that lunch? What if it was my mission to share with him about <a title="Baha'u'llah" href="http://www.bahaullah.org">Baha&#8217;u'llah</a>, and I failed? I know, it can get very egotistical to think about all these things I could have done while the whole purpose of the Fast is to get us rid of the promptings of the self, yet there is a lesson in this all, and a very timely reminder as I prepare for the <a title="Baha'i Fast" href="http://www.bahai.us/fasting-time">Baha&#8217;i Fast</a>. So, now I am determined to not miss opportunities. Thank you, Joe, and farewell! You will indeed be missed&#8230;</div>
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		<title>Getting unstuck, with a little help from strangers and friends</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 00:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes you get stuck and try as you might, nothing comes out of it &#8212; it might be the wrong time for a solution or just the wrong approach to a solution. Stepping back and seeing things in perspective helps but sometimes all you can do is persevere&#8230; and ask for help &#8212; from friends, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you get stuck and try as you might, nothing comes out of it &#8212; it might be the wrong time for a solution or just the wrong approach to a solution. Stepping back and seeing things in perspective helps but sometimes all you can do is persevere&#8230; and ask for help &#8212; from friends, strangers, and God.</p>
<p>These days the world seems stuck. And badly needs unstucking&#8230;</p>
<p><a title="Baha'i leaders make second court appearance" href="http://news.bahai.org/story/756">In Iran, the 7 Baha&#8217;i leaders</a> are stuck in a jail, falsely accused of crimes they never committed and we all fear for their lives. <a title="Prayer for the Baha'is of Iran" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxeeD6PPlvQ">Please pray for them</a>!</p>
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<p>I will not even comment on the insanity of the battle in which I am stuck in my attempts to be a father&#8230;</p>
<p>All of this while Washington, DC, is stuck under record amounts of snow.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.befriendedstranger.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/snowinarlington.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1353" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 5px;" title="snow in arlington" src="http://www.befriendedstranger.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/snowinarlington-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" align="right" /></a>This morning on my way to pick my baby sitter, my car got stuck on her street as I was driving back towards the cleared road. It took me an hour and a half trying so many different ways to get unstuck. I pushed, I pulled, I tried forward, I tried backward. A nice lady let me borrow her shovel on three occasions, each attempt getting me closer to the goal but never actually enabling me to be free. What a metaphor for my life these past years! The harder I was trying, the deeper I was getting into the snow. At some point I asked for help from some Pakistani men. They came and tried to help to no avail. Then I decided to walk to the store to buy some sand (the idea of buying sand sounds insane to me but on a snowy day you do not have much choice). They did not carry sand but they had cat litter crystals so I tried that &#8212; again, to no avail. Finally I asked a group of young men from Nicaragua to help me and after a good wait during which they uncovered somebody else&#8217;s car, they came to my rescue and off I went&#8230;</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;ve been thinking to myself about the connection between stuckness and unstuckness, freedom and detachment.</p>
<blockquote><p>Like water on a lotus leaf, like a mustard seed on the point of a pin, <strong>he who is not stuck to the senses</strong> &#8211; that is what I<br />
call a brahmin.<br />
(Dhammapada &#8211; Sayings of the Buddha)</p></blockquote>
<p>The <a title="Virtues project" href="http://www.virtuesproject.com/index.php">Virtues cards</a> I peruse each day give good insights and suggestions. The one on peacefulness suggests <strong>giving up the love of power for the power of love</strong>. A beautiful friend send me today this quote to reflect on as I was sharing about my difficulties:</p>
<blockquote><p>The more difficulties one sees in the world the more perfect one becomes. The more you plough and dig the ground the more fertile it becomes. The more you cut the branches of a tree the higher and stronger it grows. The more you put the gold in the fire, the purer it becomes. The more you sharpen the steel by grinding &#8230;the better it cuts. Therefore, the more sorrows one sees the more perfect one becomes. That is why, in all times, the Prophets of God have had tribulations and difficulties to withstand. The more often the captain of a ship is in the tempest and difficult sailing the more greater his knowledge becomes. Therefore I am happy that you have had great tribulations and difficulties . . .</p>
<p>&#8216;Abdu&#8217;l-Bahá</p></blockquote>
<p>So, all these tests and tribulations are a good sign that God indeed loves me! Much to be grateful for! So, I decided to be grateful and I baked two banana breads this afternoon to take to the people who helped me in my attempts to unstuck my car from the snow. The Pakistani men were not at home but two shy yet kind ladies opened the door and while giving them the freshly baked banana bread, I told them of my gratitude for the help I received from strangers. The American lady who gave me a shovel was very kind as well and I gave her also a <a title="Baha'i Prayer for Peace" href="http://www.bahaiprayers.org/mankind4.htm">Baha&#8217;i prayer for peace</a> &#8212; we both agreed that the world needs more helping strangers, shovels, banana bread and prayers <img src='http://www.befriendedstranger.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So, for every one who is stuck in this world, let&#8217;s give them a spiritual push. And a prayer:</p>
<blockquote><p>Thou knowest full well, O my God,  that tribulations have showered upon me from all directions and that no one can dispel or transmute them except Thee.  I know of a certainty, by virtue of my love for Thee, that Thou wilt never cause tribulations to befall any soul unless  Thou desirest to exalt his station in Thy celestial Paradise and to buttress his heart in this earthly life with the bulwark of  Thine all-compelling power, that it may not become inclined toward the vanities of this world.  Indeed Thou art well aware that under all conditions I would cherish the remembrance of Thee far more than the  ownership of all that is in the heavens and on the earth.</p>
<p>Strengthen my heart, O my God, in Thine obedience and in Thy love,  and grant that I may be clear of the entire company of Thine adversaries.  Verily, I swear by Thy glory that I yearn for naught besides Thyself,  nor do I desire anything except Thy mercy, nor am I apprehensive of aught save Thy justice.  I beg Thee to forgive me as well as those whom Thou lovest, howsoever Thou pleasest.  Verily, Thou art the Almighty, the Bountiful.</p>
<p>Immensely exalted art Thou, O Lord of the heavens and earth, above the praise of all men,  and may peace be upon Thy faithful servants and glory be unto God, the Lord of all the worlds.</p>
<p id="author">The Báb</p>
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		<title>Arlington Interfaith Prayer Meeting &#8220;Deliverance&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 22:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the LORD shall be delivered: for in mount Zion and in Jerusalem shall be deliverance, as the LORD hath said, and in the remnant whom the LORD shall call. (Judaism / Christianity, Holy Bible, Joel, 2:32) O LORD! Thou art the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the LORD shall be delivered: for in mount Zion and in Jerusalem shall be <strong>deliverance</strong>, as the LORD hath said, and in the remnant whom the LORD shall call.<br />
(Judaism / Christianity, Holy Bible, Joel, 2:32)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>O LORD! Thou art the Remover of every anguish and the Dispeller of every affliction. Thou art He Who banisheth every sorrow and setteth free every slave, the Redeemer of every soul. O Lord! Grant <strong>deliverance</strong> through Thy mercy and reckon me among such servants of Thine as have gained salvation.<br />
(<a title="Baha'i Faith" href="http://www.bahai.org">Baha&#8217;i Faith</a>, The Bab, Selections from the Writings of the Bab, p. 193)</p></blockquote>
<p>Dear friends!</p>
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<div>What nurtures your soul? What makes your heart tender? Prayer, music, fellowship, food cooked with love, tea poured in peace, cake shared with smile? Whatever the answer might be, sharing prayers with friends gets us all closer to the Creator and recharges us for the week ahead.</div>
<p>This Monday, February 8th, I invite you and your loves ones to the<strong> <a title="Arlington Prayer Station" href="http://www.befriendedstranger.com/category/prayer-station-invitation/">interfaith Prayer Station in Arlington</a></strong> on the theme of &#8220;<strong>Deliverance</strong>&#8220;, dedicated to the plight of the unjustly imprisoned leaders of the Baha&#8217;i community in <a title="Plight of the Baha'is in Iran" href="http://iran.bahai.us/">the country which gave birth to the Baha&#8217;i Faith</a>. We&#8217;ll start at 7:30 pm with light refreshments followed by reading, at 8:00 pm, of selected Holy Writings and Prayers. I have many books of prayers from different faith traditions but if you wish, feel free to bring your own prayer. We&#8217;ll also uplift and refresh our souls with music, and we&#8217;ll conclude with tea and sweets.</p>
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<p>We&#8217;ll also say prayers for anyone in need, so if you can’t join us and would like to request prayers please <a title="Contact me" href="http://www.befriendedstranger.com/contact/">contact me</a>.</p>
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		<title>Beyond conflict</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night I was watching the news on France24 and I caught an interesting 5 minute interview with Jeffrey Sachs from Columbia University on what is wrong with global governance and why we are not seeing results after so many promises made. Among other things, Mr. Sacks talked about how the political system in the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night I was watching the news on <a title="France 24" href="http://www.france24.com/en/">France24</a> and I caught an interesting 5 minute interview with <a title="Jeffrey Sachs" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeffrey_Sachs">Jeffrey Sachs</a> from Columbia University on what is wrong with global governance and why we are not seeing results after so many promises made. Among other things, Mr. Sacks talked about how the political system in the U.S. is totally dysfunctional, crippled as it is by 2-year elections cycles, money interest and narrow-mindedness.</p>
<p>This morning I watched a short movie <a title="Beyond King of the Mountain" href="http://beyond.doubletake.tv/">&#8220;Beyond King of the Mountain&#8221;</a> which not only highlights the limitations of the systems and institutions based on the culture of mutually-exclusive competition, but points to the unavoidable fact that we do have the capacity to cooperate beyond our own limitations and search for what is good for all:</p>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/8369687">Beyond King of the Mountain</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user2855819">doubletake tv</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>The apparatus of conflict will, as preparations go on at their present rate, reach the point where war will become something intolerable to mankind.<br />
(Abdu&#8217;l-Baha, The Secret of Divine Civilization, p. 66)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Sept. 12th: An Evening in Support of the Bahá&#8217;ís of Iran</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 16:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear friends, I would like to personally invite you all to a public gathering in support of religious freedom and human rights in Iran, which will be hosted by Bahá&#8217;ís from communities in the Washington D.C. metropolitan area on Saturday, September 12 at 7 p.m. at the Lisner Auditorium of George Washington University. The event [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear friends,</p>
<p>I would like to personally invite you all to a public gathering in support of religious freedom and human rights in Iran, which will be hosted by Bahá&#8217;ís from communities in the Washington D.C. metropolitan area on Saturday, September 12 at 7 p.m. at the Lisner Auditorium of George Washington University. The event is dedicated to seven Iranian Baha’i leaders who have been imprisoned in Tehran for more than a year on false charges stemming from their membership with the country’s Baha’i religious minority.</p>
<ul>
<li> What: A moving and dignified evening of arts, multimedia and presentations.</li>
<li>When: Saturday Sept 12th &#8211; 7PM</li>
<li>Where: George Washington University, <a title="Lisner auditorium" href="http://www.lisner.org/directions.asp">Lisner Auditorium</a>. 730 21st St NW, Washington, DC</li>
<li> Admission: This event is free and open to the public.</li>
</ul>
<p>Confirmed guests include:</p>
<ul>
<li> Ms. Shohreh Aghdashloo, Academy Award Nominated Actress, <a title="House of Sand and Fog" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0315983/">&#8220;House of Sand &amp; Fog&#8221;</a>, &#8220;<a title="The Stoning of Soraya M." href="http://www.thestoning.com/">The Stoning of Soraya M.</a>&#8220;</li>
<li>Dr. Azar Nafisi, Johns Hopkins Visiting Professor and NY Times Bestselling author of &#8220;<a title="Reading Lolita in Tehran" href="http://www.amazon.com/Reading-Lolita-Tehran-Memoir-Books/dp/081297106X">Reading Lolita in Tehran</a>&#8220;</li>
<li>Dr. Dwight Bashir, Associate Director for Policy &#8211; <a title="US Comission on Religious Freedom" href="http://www.uscirf.gov/">US Commission on International Religious Freedom</a></li>
</ul>
<p>The program will also feature arts and a moving multimedia presentation with comments from local Washington DC Metro Area Bahá&#8217;ís that have been personally affected by the continued persecution in Iran. Van Gilmer and the Washington Metropolitan Baha&#8217;i Chorale will perform three songs, so I would be delighted if you could join me for this special event.</p>
<p>For more information about this even please go to <a href="http://dcbahai.org/iran" target="_blank">http://dcbahai.org/iran</a> and for more information about the situation of the Bahá’ís in Iran please visit <a href="http://iran.bahai.us/" target="_blank">iran.bahai.us</a>.</p>
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		<title>For the love of our mothers</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 12:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mitko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was born in a country (Bulgaria) which ratified the global treaty on women&#8217;s rights (CEDAW) at its inception but now I live in one of the eight countries (Iran, Nauru, Palau, Qatar, Somalia, Sudan, Tonga, USA) which has not ratified it yet. If you can guess which country I live in and you happen [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was born in a country (Bulgaria) which ratified <a title="Women's Treaty" href="http://www.womenstreaty.org/">the global treaty on women&#8217;s rights</a> (<a title="CEDAW" href="http://www.bahai.us/cedaw">CEDAW</a>) at its inception but now I live in one of the eight countries (Iran, Nauru, Palau, Qatar, Somalia, Sudan, Tonga, USA) which has not ratified it yet. If yo<span>u can guess which country I live in and you happen to live in the same country, please call </span>your senators at 202-224-3121<span> and tell them that for the love of their mother at least, they should ratify the </span>CEDAW treaty for the Rights of Women today!</p>
<p><a title="CEDAW Treaty on Women's Rights" href="http://www.bahai.us/cedaw"><img class="alignnone" style="border: 0pt none; margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="Womens Treaty" src="http://iran.bahai.us/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/cedaw.bmp" alt="" width="545" height="83" /></a></p>
<blockquote><p>As long as women are prevented from attaining their highest possibility, so long will men be unable to achieve the greatness which might be theirs.<br />
&#8211; &#8216;Abdu&#8217;l-Bahá</p></blockquote>
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